my wife left, but still lives with me

[OneDay]

One of my concerns with living with my wife is that maybe that doesn't provide enough 'space'. Enough space that maybe she would actually miss me a little and have a change of heart. I certainly miss having a spouse and all the little things it entails. I miss not sending her little emails about funny small occurences during the day. I miss not having someone to share things with........

I have that concern too, but on the other hand(being separated) you run the risk of too much space and your WAS not being able to notice any changes. It seem those of us that live with our WAS think we need more space, and those that are separated think it would be better if they lived together. Im not sure what is best, both seem hard to me.
Trust me, It is hard as hell to live with my WAW and try to be upbeat, patient, and keep DBing. I am mentally and physically exhausted by 9:00pm

If you've been texting, make phone calls, and emails thought the day and now your not, you are giving each other space. She might be missing those stories, she may not. She may want to text/email you but is afraid, and again she may not. I miss sharing those things too and I miss the things she use to share with me and it absolutely [censored]. I think labug summed it up best.

Keep working on you, Thats all anyone can do.