Yup, I too have talk to W about getting off of them. What she won't accept and the medical community has turned a blind eye to is that after a while the AD has the opposite affect of what is wanted. They tend to cause the person to become more depressed. It is a definite case of the money trumping what is the ethical thing to do.
I agree that actions speak volumes over words. I am learning to think all my responses out before uttering them. I think we all learn to do this to stop ourselves from initiating discussions about the R with our W. Patience and constantly on guard to not slip is my game plan at this point.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"