Slightly off topic rant. My biggest pet peeve about Facebook these days is the constant spam women post with these memes about how men don't deserve women unless they do x y z and appreciate them for this and that...it's like a slap in the face sometimes. I keep reading them and think "I thought I was doing that".
Perhaps I should start making some of my own saying "when someone spent a decade and a half with you...obviously loves you and you aren't happy, try not being such a self-centered prick and give them the dignity of trying to make it work. Maybe even try talking to him about it instead of your stupid friends."
End rant. Yesterday's little phone conversation hit me harder than I thought it did; good thing I kept busy last night.
Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.