I would go a little further in regards with which friends you "vent/share/confide" in. It is best that they are supportive of the idea that you intend to save your M/R. Because what you are likely sharing does not paint your W in a positive light.
Definitely limit who you confide in, because some people do not always comprehend what DB'ing and forgiveness are all about.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa