When H is "going through something" whether it's about me or not - how do I act? I'm a fixer, and typically I would try and be there and offer help and advice. Seems like he just "wants to be in a bad mood" so do I just ignore it and let him go through his thing? I struggle with him thinking I don't care - since his impression of our relationship is in such (unfair) negative absolutes. "Always cold and withdrawn" "never there for me"
Me, 39. H, 35. 3 boys - 13, 11, 9 - 1 w/ multiple disabilities BD Dec 2012 Sort of a quasi in-house sep Nov 2013
