separated 6 weeks still on the journey

[paul19510]

3boyz, I did something today that was progress. With the 2 hour school delay, W worked it out with D13 that I'd drop the kids at school b/c W still had to report to work on time. D13 was supposed to tell me and didn't.

Normally, I would have contacted W about this to clarify what was supposed to happen and then tell her that D13 never relayed the message. I probably would repeat my request that we discuss these matters ourselves (which isn't happening again). I am not going to. there is nothing to clarify. Kids need a ride, W gave msg to D13. done.

Drops the rope, stops a controlling behavior that I didn't see before when I continue to insist on discussions W will not have.