Haha, here's a trap, lol. I've read a bunch of threads where blame has been a key factor but the honest answer to my question is that she handles them her way and on her terms and often the conversations end because she's tired/fallen asleep, is distracted or has something to do. The key conversations we've had (separation details, etc.) have been face-to-face but most of our recent relationship conversations have been via text message. My feeling on this was that she's communicating so who am I to quiz her about her method? I've accepted that she's shared and I've responded accordingly.

The latest conversation started as a text message while she was at work and she hasn't come back to it yet. I've chosen to remain in the mode where she initiates conversations until I properly understand how to handle this section of my situation.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014