Originally Posted By: burning heart
I know it hearsay but not good. This family friend is close to W and MIL and lives with them.
I would say that this is more than hearsay….I believe this is how your W feels at the moment

Originally Posted By: burning heart
So I can give up, which I don't want to, or trey to talk to W at some point.
Giving up is totally YOUR call – why would you give up if you don't want to?
What do YOU want to talk to her about?

Originally Posted By: burning heart
Nothing is moving towards divorce that I know of. She has not mentioned it in almost a month.
Lots of WAWs spend a year or more getting the paperwork done so do not put anything into this!

Me:44 W:43
D7, D5 (S11 from other R)

T: 8y - not M
ILYB: 8. Mar 2013
W moved: 1. Aug 2013
LRT: 20. Aug 2013
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