So just bringing info from the previous thread. After about 7 months with no contact with SIL or ex best friend, I met up with them separately a few days ago. A lot of discussion about the W's new behaviours and attitudes for the worse. Also a situation coming up is a 21st party for my s21 fiance (her 21st). It will be held on a property, quite a distance from home and requires an escort to the property, so we don't get lost. This party will be an overnighter where we bring our own tents. Anyway I found out that W will now be coming (originally wasn't) and is bringing OW with her. So my question is how do I deal with this? Also got a text from the W yesterday thanking me for offering to give a shipping container to friend (see last thread). Again my question is do I reply to her? And how do I deal with the ex friend telling someone in the family about my offer and then the W is aware of it? Signed the papers yesterday with the solicitor with regards to splitting of assets. They will be mailed to the W, she signs them and viola, I own the house, townhouse, new car and everything she walked away from. The W issued the paperwork, which would have cost her somewhere around $3 to $5 thousand dollars to have done. So it didn't make any difference if I signed it first or not. Normally it would have been me signing first anyway, rather than the person who issued it.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
