Julie-You have taken on so much! I am sorry you had a bad day. I had to laugh about S eating a donut for supper..You are NOT a bad mom!

You are doing the best you can with a crappy situation. You are fighting for your M and protecting your S and SS from so much of this mess. Now a puppy!! I think we somehow knew most of that responsibility would end up on your lap. frown

You do such a good job of taking things day by day. Do you make an effort to do this or were you not the planner type before?

I am cheering for you and I want you to know that all your hard work is awesome. The LBS has to shoulder so much responsibility. Seems like some days are downright overwhelming. Add to that a H that you cannot even begin to reason with.

I feel for you. I agree with Paul. Take some time for yourself and smile and rest. Your S is so lucky to have such a great mom. Tonight was just a donut kind of night smile

Paul: I intend to read through and catch up on your story soon. You sound good smile


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014