Just poking in for two reasons. First: ((((GM))))!!!! You will do this. You are strong and confident. You have such support behind you. There will be ups and downs through this process. Just do what you need to do. It will work out for you. Mediation is best, and he should kick in his share. Hopefully that can get agreed to. He will be saving money doing it this way. Mediator should suggest that.
Second: have noticed some gender bashing. MLC does not discriminate between genders. Nor does money-driven mindsets or selfishness. Women get hurt. Men get hurt. We are in this together. Take what you want from that but I am hopeful that empathy is not gender biased. I don't think it is generally, and hope I am right.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.