one follow up. Interestingly enough I just had a chance encounter with W. I didn't know she'd be at the church for a meeting and I was there doing my cleaning job. She came into the room with D13 for the meeting. She was polite and pleasant. She complimented my work and I thanked her. I was confident and happy. Just in a good place. I excused myself and wished her a good evening. She seemed happy and wished me the same. That's how you do it!
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14