Final phase of losing wife?

[kenva]

Just got off the phone with my MIL. What an awesome lady. Even with her husbands recent death she is there for me. She is still disgusted with the way her daughter is acting. She did bring up that they are having a birthday dinner for her grandson sat night and didn't know how to approach my w with it. The grandson, w's nephew wants me there. I told MIL that he needs to call wife and tell her he wants me there not MIL to call so it doesn't seem that she is the one pushing me to be there at the family birthday dinner. I am truly blessed to have her family being supportive of me. This is the nephew @ 22 yrs old that told me, what ever happens don't disappear from our lives.