separated 6 weeks still on the journey

[paul19510]

Julie and Woody, I am questioning all of those things. My house is peaceful, my kids are happy again and I am somewhat better off emotionally now that W is not here. I didn't take care of myself and this separation has been a wake up call to really work on me. I do perceive that she took my kindness for weakness. I do perceive that she doesn't think much of herself and therefore is lifted up by putting others down when she wants. I was an easy target.

Wood, not sure what her respect issues are. I noticed that the same themes play along her life at various point as described by other from before I knew her. I also noticed that she made nasty comments about her previous H's and their families. Nothing seems to change. Just the new people involved.

I really have to think about this.