So you wanna play with magic

[Whiterose]

Hi guys.....been a way for a while. Was doing really well and the last two days I've just been blah. You understand. .

KP thanks for stopping in! Precious is one word we can use. Since my last post SIL #2 not only blocked me on FB but the boys....so #1 unfriended them and now #2 blocked the. Nice, eh. Boys asked me why and my response "who gives a $hit. They're crazy and not worth it!" I don't care if it was right or wrong to say.....they don't to get just dispresect my children.
You make a very interesting point KP......poking the bear is the only way he knows to make contact. After my text I have not received another one since.......odd, as it's hard to get your stuff back if you don't tell me what you're missing.....hmmm. Lol.
Congrats on your "baby" starting college.....it's proud times!!

Although I have not heard from h I did hear from his lawyer. He wants copies of the canceled cheque, from my parents, as he is now contesting the amount they gave me, by a few thousand, so my parents have had to approach the bank to go back 16 years. I also have to find the cancelled cheque from H's pre-marital debt as he's also contesting that amount.. I was furious. His L said it's my problem as the files are in my the house. Told my L I'm done doing stuff for H and he's welcome to come look himself. Of course, she's like it's better for you blah, blah, blah......regardless iive looked and cannot find it so now I'm working with the bank. H's L has also asked for S19's proof of registration, income, hours etc. Had to ask S19 for it all and he stated giving me attitude about it wanting to know, and I'm done, so I said "because your dad does not want to give me full child support for you he wants to find out how much you make so he can give me less as I'm. Supposed to get the money from you". Again, I know I probably shouldn't have but it's the truth and I'm tired of getting my head bit off from everyone as I try and get everything figured out.

In one of the letters from H's L the second paragraph reads, where's he asking for the info this is how it starts...
"Mr H advises that your client has told the children not to provide any documentation to him of any sort. Kindly have your client obtain......."

I hit the roof. ANOTHER dig. I phoned my L and said they need to get the proof or shut the F up! I said I was tired of this and that I had talked to the boys and asked if I had said that or if they had interpreted something I said that way. They said no and that H had never even asked for any paperwork. The man was too scared to ask so he has to get me to do it and get a dig in!! My L tied telling me it wasn't accusing me and I told her I knew my H and knew exactly the game he's playing and with all the $hit from him and his family I wa going to lose it on all of them. That I had remained silent up until now but I was going to make this ugly if that's what he really wanted. I said I raise these boys all on my own, and that's fine, but he cannot attack me in the process. She said nothing was proven in a court at which I yelled, into my phone, BECAUSE ITS NOT TRUE!

My L responded and her first paragraph read
"As a preliminary, my client is frustrated at the stream of unfounded allegations coming from your client relative to her discussions with the children. At no time did she ever suggest to the children that they not provide your client with documents. Both children have told their mother that your client has never had any discussions with either child relative to providing documents. This sort of unfounded attack is troubling and not helpful in moving towards relaolution".

Oh and a funny side note I saw that H changed his profile pic to the monopoly man with his pockets turned out saying he's broke. This was a pic he had from a few years back at which I jokingly said "yes, cause I need pretty things! Lol". Some family member, whom he has never met, talked to or knows us in any way than what MiL has said "you're broke but happy" I laughed and laughed and laughed. Thought you loser!! Not only do you put that as your profile pic but leave my old comment there for effect. I guess my GAL photos aren't going over well.

H has contact S19 to go for dinner tomorrow night, he tried last week too, so we'll see what happens with that now.

Thanks for listening guys