Since September 2012, I get the typical WAW speech/blow-up every 10 weeks or so. I can usually see it building where she seems more irritated. She'll ask me "What are we doing? Neither one of us is happy.....yada yada". She loves to detail all the ways that we are different as proof of why this shouldn't work.... I used to get really down on these days, but I view them more positively now. They allow a release of frustration and pressure and feel more like "rest stops" along a journey...
Her last one was in the middle of November and she made a crack about getting through the holidays. The holidays are over and things are still going ok.... We have two family trips planned this spring and summer and she hasn't mentioned the D word since...
Compared to most people's stories, I feel really good the way we're tracking...Just need to keep it going...
Me: 42 W: 39 M: 14 years T: 16 years D12 D11 D9 ILYBINILWY 09/14/12 Living Together In Limbo
