Well I have a small update, but its not much. I spoke with W regarding some banking issues and the schedule for an upcoming doc appt for D16. During the convo I put myself out there by telling her that I would be a block from her office this morning at 11 and asking if she'd like me to stop by and perhaps have a cup of coffee. She said no thank you. I told her that was fine and she said, "you know I can't just interrupt my day like that..." I told her it'd be nice to get a cup of coffee sometime and that I'd be open to it. I asked if I was being too forward to ask. She said she didn't think so, but she'd see about it. That was the same convo when we were married and living under the same roof.

What am I trying to save????


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14