This weekend is W's birthday. She asked to have daughter stay overnight with her. I agreed. This is something above and beyond our parenting agreements, but I feel that she should have D on her birthday if she wishes, by all means!
I thought I would give W a birthday card. I thought I would included several pictures that daughter has picked out that she wants to take to OM's house. Is that too much? Would it come off as pursuing or pressure? Some of the pictures have me in them.
I also wonder about the card itself. What should I include in the message, just a "hey, happy birthday"? Or, should I express something more? Should I not get involved with a card at all? For instance, my "friendly" next door neighbor or office acquaintances wouldn't give me a birthday card, so I am wondering if that is too much?
