If you two can engage and negotiate as much as possible without L's that would be best to save a lot of money. Some L's will also elevate tension to drive up costs.
Good on you to talk to DB coach. I spent many a day and night with tears...it is okay. Let it out. Be strong in front of and for your boy...you are his angel. Your answer will come and you will be guided. Likely you probably already are....just take heed. The guidance and help is for you and your boy, not her. She is responsible for herself right now. If you focus on help for her, you won't get the help you need for you.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.