Thank you FY, those changes are going to be some little things.

For example, I have been going back to the office during this in the evenings after ensuring kids fed, homework done/in-progress and all that, 2-5 nights a week...I always have work to do, and usually all the boys eat up all my bandwidth at home, so working remotely is next to impossible. So I want to dial back on that and not go in as much.

I want to try some casual touches occasionally. Be "around" her space more. Initiate convos with her a bit more (not R talks, I am doing as job suggested and waiting til early spring before another "temp check").

I like your idea of a few AoS for her, I am pretty sure that is a primary LL for her.

Slowly, gently, turn up the parts of old+new T2 that haven't been able to fully be shown or expressed.

Things I would do or be in any R with anyone.

Just me moving forward to being myself fully. I hope she likes it, if not, that's okay too.

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