Suckerpunch, the final thread

[labug]

You're still keeping score. Go back and read your early posts. I'm not saying beat yourself up over the past, just accept that you had a role in this thing. You do that at times and then you always come back to, it's all her fault. Both partners have a role.

I'm not advocating you become besties and do things together but rather pointing out where she clearly indicated she wants the R to go. Your shared grief may have caused her to overstate.

You do presumably have a lot of life in front of you, when we're open to possibilities we don't know where life will take us.

It would be wonderful to have a friendly, open R with the mother of your D.