Bea, yes, my xh thinks that he will finally get the money he is entitled to. In fact, he wanted me to assure him that he would receive a payout if he agreed to mediate. I responded that I could not predict the outcome anymore than he could. I let him know that I am perfectly comfortable proceeding with the court action, and I am, if he chooses not to mediate. I would really like to put an end to this quickly and I am hopeful that mediation is the answer. I keep trying to imagine what my life will be like when this is finally over. With those thoughts in my head any amount that I have to pay is worth it.