Yes we have been doing it a long time. Which is why I need to end this cycle of hurt too and proposed an offer to settle. As Sun said, forge the life I want a get out of this mess. Stop the cycle of abuse. Trying but can't control the situation. Makes compassion impossible and forgiveness that much more of a stretch. Funny AJM, my exW too said she did not want forgiveness and did not know what that meant either. Perhaps their own inner struggle with guilt or, just a shot to hurt more. Who knows? That is their issue. Just want my life now. I tried sooooo hard and I am tired.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
