Of course, there is also probably some truth to both of these - at least in my case. I fully acknowledge and accept the emptiness my W was feeling that would lead her to look for comfort elsewhere. On the other hand, she made the conscious decision to pursue these actions, knowing the grief and pain it would cause, and then what it was causing. So, there is enough blame to share. We can only work on our own selves - and you know this. As do I, in my case.
We're here for ya - all your DB friends, for whatever we can do to help motivate, lift spirits, console, laugh.... whatever we can do.
Yes there is truth in my case also. I will beat this, I will get off this rollercoaster ride, improve myself, have a better relationship with my sons and detach so much better. Thanks also for the support, it is appreciated.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
