Thank you so much for joining in Laurie. Yes, the focus is on improving my relationship with my sons. I think the vision/goal/hope of a positive outcome would be similar to my sons 21st last year. That is I come across as happy and enjoying myself. I am seen as moving around the place talking to different people about subjects that are not about the sitch. Even more better outcome would be to not have any concern or worry over the W bringing the OW to the party.
In addition to that, I had lunch with my son today. I went in with the intention of saying nothing about the W to him. And I did simply say to him that I have decided to come to the party and I am doing this for his fiance and himself. Nothing else involving W or things around the W. High five.
Another question to who wants to answer this. Wonka? I stated that I offered the shipping container to the ex best friend, for no reason other than it was something the W and I agreed on 3 years ago.
Well I just got a text from W, saying "Hi HWA, it was very nice of you to offer friend the shipping container. I let them know it wasn't cause you didn't want to move it but that you had planned to do it before as a way to thank them". So it shows me a few things. One, the friend has even spoken to W direct or spoken to SIL who then contacted the W. The W felt it necessary to thank me.......a positive. So do I reply back to her........saying what? And do I reply back to her......saying the paperwork just got signed? Either, both or none?
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
