So, the only thing she has left is to pour out her anger on you and go after the Hallmark idea of happiness. For now and for the foreseeable future. Maybe for the rest of her life. Who knows?
That's what is. The question is when are you going to see the what is vs. the what should be? When you do, you'll adjust how you behave, react, feel, etc.
Thanks brother. What should be I guess is to wrap this up. That's what she claimed to want. It's been almost 2 years. Now her stalling is to upset that process and frustrate and hurt me more. She won't get to her Hallmark idea of happiness by making it worse by dragging. So if she doesn't then I feel trapped in a sense. I cannot control the process at this point....that is why I put the offer out....to make it go away. If she did not want this and she is unhappy about it, or herself then she should not have.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
