dj,

If she knows about the session, I would not bother her. She will come if she is compelled to. Not because you want her to.

I would let my W know when I was going. It was her choice to go or not. I did not ask her to go.

After about 3 months of going by myself, she started going too. It was her decision to go though. All hers...

That's my humble opinion. Others may have a different take on it .

M46 W45 T12 M10 S9 D4
BD 2/13
Divorced 5/14