She has her freedom as she wanted. She has the end of the marriage as she wanted.
Hey brother, if she is not rational, why would the divorce and her freedom be what she wanted? What makes you thinks she's happy about it - her telling you that she is? Her acting like she is around you?
I submit that her actions say otherwise. She wanted them to make her happy, perhaps. She wanted to be gone, perhaps. But did those things make her happy with herself? Doubtful. Those weren't the issues apparently.
So, the only thing she has left is to pour out her anger on you and go after the Hallmark idea of happiness. For now and for the foreseeable future. Maybe for the rest of her life. Who knows?
That's what is. The question is when are you going to see the what is vs. the what should be? When you do, you'll adjust how you behave, react, feel, etc.
I'm not saying it's right. I'm not saying I'm right. But I am saying that your approach to what is seems to be aligned more with what should be and what she said it is. That doesn't seem to be working for you.
Make sense?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
