I am coming on here to vent so when I get home tonight I can just let it be.

I called to say goodnight to s and I get grilled by H about why I changed my work schedule. I explained that I didn't. I have had the same schedule for 2 years. I work late either mon or wed. H just kept insisting that I changed my schedule. I tried to change the subject by asking about new dog to which he responded "why do you care he is not your dog" Nevermind I just spent the whole weekend taking care of him.

How do you talk to someone like that? And by talk I mean communicate about s and other essentials.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15