Hey Now, just a few things. It doesnt help you if I am not honest with you. So...
If your h is in a MLC it would be very unusual for that to turn around this quickly. Not impossible, but, unusual.
You are very early into this, so if you are losing patience with limboland already.......well, just know, it is a long haul.
You cant rush him through this. You cant threaten him through it either. You want him to go through all the steps so that he comes out the other side whole.
What you are doing is pursuing and that may work in the short term, but, in the long term it is going to going to push him away.
You sent him a text, he didnt answer. So, you sent him another one where you said you were done. He said, ok. Then you tell him that he wasnt very enthusiastic. He tells you he's on a call.
I would be surprised if he calls you on Wednesday without any communication from you. It may happen, I've been wrong.
The thing is that you had a nice, positive interaction. Let him sit with that.
He knows how to get in touch with you if he wants to, right?
You continuing to pursue him and threaten him with deadlines isnt serving you well.
