Most things that are good for us are difficult. So does that mean we just don't try?
Certainly not, but I understand someone's inability to do so at a certain point. The person has to heal and be ready to accept someone who causes them daily pain as a friend. That is a tall order, not to be taken lightly.
My problem with friendship, different than suckerpunch's, is I have to figure out a way to fall OUT of love with XW. I've tried being friends while IN love with her, and I/we can't seem to make it work.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.