The "doneness" is kinda like steaks... You got your rare, medium, and of course, well done. Sometimes, if not done enough to your liking, you have to send your spouse, oops, I mean your steak, back to the kitchen for a little more cooking. This is risky though, because sometimes they can end up getting burned.
Great analogy FY! As long as I don't end up burnt!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!