Just checking in on my thread, journaling and mulling over stuff as always. Any input is welcome.
These days I find myself suspicious that the progress we made is mixed in with her stringing me along. Is it normal for a person to have a change of heart but still want to remain separate? Or did I just over read what happened?
She said that in time she found that her feelings for me haven't changed, she does love me. She's willing to work on our relationship slowly, in time...what that means, I don't know. She also let off a weird comment "who knows, maybe we'll find ourselves in a marriage where we simply live in separate places"....???
Perhaps it just means she's not ready yet, perhaps she has plans to never come back. I don't know.
I suppose it's just more of the same. Detach, GAL, be patient. Has anyone else heard of this? I had assumed that things would seem a little for more linear when she came around...this just seems like back and forth stuff. Make sense?
Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.
