I feel my marriage is done

[KarenR]

Hi, I am sorry you are in this situation, but I am glad you are reading some of Michele's books. It is great that you are working on yourself as well. The next steps and advice is what the DB coaches are experts at. Each situation is unique and your coach will help you come up with a very specific plan on how to go forward so that when you interact with your wife, you will be doing so in a way that brings her closer and doesn't push her further away. Your compliancy and follow up with your coach is an excellent way to turn things around in your relationship. Take care.