I don't wish to be negative or combative with W. I don't think we need to be enemies. I just do not know if I could ever be great friends, or even just FIRENDS with her without being able to heal our marriage. I think I would always have a constant reminder of the hurt, too much so that a friendship would be very difficult. I can and will however, be friendly towards her. I have been doing that for a while now. I meet her openly and amicably at all times. I try to stay very upbeat and not rock the boat. I am trying my very best to co-parent with her. Unfortunately, I can't see myself being pals with the mother of my child, the true love of my life, my wife, while she was with another man, in another place, and she is keeping my daughter from living and growing with me. That is something I cannot put aside my feelings about. That would make a friendship very difficult for me.
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