Back to businesslike H, no hand holding, no flirting, a brief peck on the cheek.
Not sure who is more confused, him or me!!!!
That's actually pretty typical, it's the "distance/ pursuit" dynamic. He was pursuing you a bit, now he's pushing away again. Your goal is to stay as close to "center" as possible, try not to ride the waves like he does. When he's "up" just expect that he's going to be "down" again at some point, then when it happens it won't take you by surprise. Likewise when he's "down" don't try to pursue, just give him time and space. He'll be on the upswing again before you know it.
