is there room to negotiate the terms or to word it as irreconcilable differences in some way? If the words are standing in your way, courts and legal proceedings often can change stuff.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
