JonF, I don't believe she ever faked being straight. If she faked it, she did a bloody good job for over 25 years. I think she reached rock bottom with the marriage, this other woman (who was known for preening woman) come along and in my opinion took advantage of my wife. So according to my wife telling her mother that she and the other woman are a couple now, I can only presume that she is gay/lesbian whatever you want to call her. I do believe it is a pa, not an EA which I would have talked about way in the beginning. If anything, I would presume now that the affair started even before BD.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
