Originally Posted By: reb9597
AL ANON ADVICE/UNDERSTANDING PLEASE -

My head has been spinning with new understanding & evidence about h's drinking and the deteriorating effects on his relationships. I sent my version of an intervention letter about 6 weeks ago, and he has avoided me since. I've also been attending Al anon for the past couple months BUT I'm stuck on the first step and I haven't heard a similar story at any of the various meetings I've been to. But maybe someone here can relate...


I'm not sure what you mean by intervention letter. Is it "My life has been negatively affect by your drinking in these ways..."?

Similar story in what way?


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss