I can't figure this women out and I need to stop trying.
What can't you figure out? I don't see her being unclear at all, what do you see?
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Come to think of it. I don't know where she's gonna live after the big D. Where are my boys gonna be. I never asked her. Should I ask her at this stage of our divorce. I thought we were not suppose to bring up divorce talks as it goes against DBing but correct me if I'm wrong because I have a lot of questions for her espesially after the last response I recived from her attorney.
You can ask whatever you want whenever you want. You're getting a D, of course you would have questions about your kids.
That doesn't mean you demand answers or act angry. You open a ocnversation: "W I realize I have some important questions like, where are you going to live after the D. Can we talk about sharing time with our sons?" etc.
Take responsibility for yourself.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
