Has been a week...still no response from her lawyer on my offer to settle. Offer is good and went above what i should have/required to. Does not respond to other business at hand re; banking, kids etc. . except only when she wants something. Why not just settle and be done with it all? This is what she wants and she is dragging it on. Just to hurt me more????? Cruel as they come and still about control. Still bums me out and I feel trapped. She forced this divorce but wont end it qckly, equitbaly or amicably. She disappears for a week to Mexico and didn't tell the kids. She cancelled on them for the trip and went without them. She didn't even call them....not even on New Year's. Selfish.
On the good side...going out tomorrow with someone I have known since high school. She asked me out! A little nervous. She knew my exW as she is within a close circle of my friends and they hung a bit. Was even at my wedding. My exW was always a little jealous of her and had made comments in the past we had had flings. Nope....never.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
