Wife Said She's Done - Pt. 2 ..and Still Hopeful

[MrBond]

"1. Why do you think my WAW care so much as to where Im going and what Im doing?"

It can be for a number of reasons but the bottom line is that only your W knows. Or, in many cases, she doesn't know herself. Could be guilt, could be jealousy, etc. The point is that if we "suggest" to you what the reason could be, you're going to go off spinning thinking it's one thing when it's really not.

Not worth it to be wasting your time like that. Continue to concentrate on you.

"2. Do you WAS seem perfectly fine (even happy) with their decision to divorce. Do they seem like a different person to you. Mine does. "

Same thing. Most WASs are fine with their decision to D because alot of times it allows them to not have to deal with issues and to just run away. For others, it's a different reason. Either way, same thing. It doesn't matter.

Look, this isn't a puzzle for YOU to solve. Even if you have everything "figured out" it could be different than what your W really means.

The best course of action is to do the 180s from what your Ws concerns were and just concentrate on yourself.

"Am I losing it here guys? It sure feels like it lately."

Yes you are.