Me 14 months on, affair confirmed, someone new?

[Fartiltre]

So my question is, do I still go to the party, with the knowledge that my W is taking the OW and everyone seems to be ok with this? Do I bite the bullet and be the better person and ignore what the W is doing? Do I stand for my rights and simply say, sorry, but I still find this disrespectful to me, my sons, my future DIL?

IMHO you risk losing ground with DIL, sons and the family if you do not go!
This could make a new tattoo if you know what I mean!

This is only about you! You are not the one to stand up for DIL, sons or family and tell them what to accept and what not to accept – and that’s what will be interpreted if you do not go because of this.
They are all adults and they can do that for themselves.

If W and OW didn’t show up then you would go – I am almost certain of that! By not going you are giving W and OW control over your life – don’t do that. GO and have a great one!

At the same time this is about you, your POV and nothing else. If your beliefs are so strong, that you can’t imagine being there then…..

But my advice will be that if you think you can bite the bullet – then do so!