You are so right, Portia, I was remiss in telling her that.
Now, it is important that you do handle that. MLCers can be very irresponsible with money. And as you saw with the home equity try, very sneaky.
Make sure your name is not on any other cards. Go see a lawyer. The first consultation is usually free. Do not tell him that you have.
I also agree that you should not be using the credit card. It is none of his business what you are doing. You dont have access to see what he is doing.
This does not mean you cant stand and fight for your marriage. But you have to protect you first.
And yep, I have done a lot of work. Tough, hard work. It will be ongoing always. I wish I didnt have to learn what I did in this way, but, I am so thankful for the journey.
