Yes, you both are right.

I asked because things were calm and the room is a wreck. I know I shouldn't have gone there. I don't see what the big deal of him sleeping in there is. Honestly, yes, to me it would mean we might be heading down the right track, but also, it's just sleeping. He has everything else in the room - it's not like he's really moved out.... frown wah

Me, 39. H, 35.
3 boys - 13, 11, 9 - 1 w/ multiple disabilities
BD Dec 2012
Sort of a quasi in-house sep Nov 2013