It is situations like today that make me realize that H is really all about himself. I called him early this morning to tell him that S5 was sick. He did not answer but called back 30 minutes later. He made it seem like it was no big deal to handle all three kids while one was sick. I did just fine but it is slightly stressful. He said that he would bring over lunch for everyone. Now it is almost 1, S3 and S1 are starving and crying and H is MIA. S5 begged to call him and no answer. H knows the kids are sick. What if there was an emergency? He has had a relaxing morning all to himself. H knows I have my hands full yet he is taking his sweet time and is not responsive on top of it. I cannot believe that I will continue to be the actual responsible parent while H claims he is a good dad and is here for them.