So H, over the last 2 months, has turned the den into "his space". Sleeping, art space, whatever else. And it's a mess because of everything he crammed in there. I just said to him - "wouldn't you like to come back and sleep in our room, and just leave this for your getaway solitude space?" He said, "no I wouldn't, not at this point."
Ouch.
I probably shouldn't have said anything huh? Also was about to ask him why we haven't had sx in a week... But held my tongue.
This sux.
Me, 39. H, 35. 3 boys - 13, 11, 9 - 1 w/ multiple disabilities BD Dec 2012 Sort of a quasi in-house sep Nov 2013
