I guess I have been silent. I haven't asked for what I wan't either mainly because of DBing. "Don't talk about our relationship". So I don"t talk and it seems like the only way I can act "As if" I am moving on with my life since we still live together is to move in the direction of complete separation but then what? It feels counter to DBing or am I not seeing the big picture here?
AJM I love your Martin Luther King quote "Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter", but that seems to be going against the DBing rules or like I said, am I missing the big picture?


Wife emotionally checked out 2 years ago
ILYBNLWY 2/1/2013
M-48, W-40
D-9
Living together in separation for daughter