Yes, I think you are. Respect though goes both ways so don't expect any from her if you're not consistent with hers. She's ticked about something. She may not be healthy in your eyes but she is in hers. It's her reality that matters to her. As all have said to you, be the man only a fool would not want to be with.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.