I agree - do not move out if you are standing for your marriage. My H talked about moving out for over a year before he actually took action.
Now he lives with OW who is divorced with 3 children - she is also 17 years younger than my H. Will it last? I doubt it.
I am standing for my marriage and my family. Don't know if I am going to be successful but my H's affair is over 2 years old now and H has been living with OW for over a year.
My H and I still see each other when H visits my son at our home but my son is going to move to another state around the end of the month. So don't know if I will see H as much. But when I do see H, we flirt and are even intimate at times. So who knows?
If I stand for our marriage and family, I have a chance. If I give up, then we are done. And I am not ready to be done.
